Don’t waste your time if the woman you’re dating is doing these things.
- Uses her sexuality to manipulate you to buy her things and do chores for her while showing no sincere interest in you or a relationship.
- Doesn’t return your calls, text messages, emails, or other communications.
- Makes excuses for not seeing you.
- Cancels your dates at the last minute.
- Puts you on hold (maybe status) on whether she’ll go out with you until the last minute.
- Is poorly groomed and poorly dressed when you pick her up for dates.
- Is only interested in talking about herself during your dates.
- Talks incessantly about everything detail of her life.
- Shows little interest in what you’re talking about during your dates.
- Doesn’t keep her attention on you during your dates.
- Checks out other men during your dates.
- Spends more time talking with other men during your dates than you.
- Asks you in a clever way to help her make another man jealous.
- Constantly tries to get you to change aspects of your appearance or personality.
- Demonstrates a pessimistic attitude.
- Demonstrates a dishonest and secretive aptitude.
- Talks negatively about her friends and other people in general.
- Shares destructive gossip with you on a continual basis.
- Constantly criticizes you.
- Constantly complains about your relationship.
- Refuses to have mature and constructive conversations about your relationship or any other topic.
- Is unable to have mature and constructive conversations about your relationship or any other topic without getting confrontational and yelling.
- Confronts you about sensitive issues with another person present, especially a girlfriend or a family member.
- Shows a propensity for poor judgment.
- Shows a propensity for reckless spending and money management.
- Shows no interest in fitness, exercise, or healthy eating.
- Doesn’t invite you to events with her friends and family when it would be appropriate to do so.
- Holds a (metaphoric) gun to your head and demands that you get married.
- Refuses to discuss sexually transmitted disease history and testing.
- Refuses to talk about what measures she’s taking to prevent pregnancy.
- Is secretive about what she’s doing to prevent pregnancy.
- Refuses to take measures to prevent pregnancy.
- Constantly demands to know where you’ve been and what you did.
- Calls, texts, or emails you a ridiculous number of times every day.
- Abuses you emotionally by saying incredibly hurtful things to you.
- Abuses you physically by freely hitting you with her hand or an object when she gets angry.
Don’t waste your time if a woman is treating you like this at any point in your relationship. There are billions of people in the world. And there must be at least a thousand who are a perfect match for you. So why waste another second of your life in a bad relationship? Invest your time instead in finding a woman who’s right for you.